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(no subject) [Jan. 5th, 2009|10:31 pm]

This year is the year.
I feel it.a

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Random thoughts at 2am [Dec. 27th, 2008|01:27 pm]
So for the nth night this week I’m up past 2.
Cleaning out my closest has turned out to be more challenging than I thought. Although, I am getting better at weeding out the things I no longer wear (much) and editing what I do need.
I realized I have this obsessive need to clean it out before I leave for Bora so that when I come home in the new year, it will really be a fresh and clean start.
Not to mention the fact that I have this strange habit of not wanting to hang up any new clothes I bought until the closet is nice and orderly. So a lot of the time, new purchases hang around in paper bags on the bench in my room until I get the closet in a semi-presentable state.

Anyway, it’s after Christmas and I’m broke. Haha.
What happened to all the Christmas money? Well, your guess is as good as mine.
Which is awful since I’m lusting over a Blackberry, the Blackberry Curve in particular (Thanks to Nisha!haha). Hopefully, I’ll be able to come up with a plan to have that baby in my hands by my birthday (wishful thinking.haha).
I’m obsessing over a pair of black patent pumps in Charles and Keith but they don’t have my size.Ugh. Maybe when the new store in Rockwell opens…

Everyone seems to be gone or busy during the Christmas Break. Nish is in Dubai/Egypt, Pau is all the way in Katip (haha), Paolo is in Bangkok/Hong Kong,Macky is in Baguio,and everyone else in Davao (I think..haha). My girls are everywhere, as girls are during the Christmas season,with schedules that are hard to mesh. Even the boys are busy or out of town. Haha. On Monday I'll be leaving for Bora, which means I'm the last of the Davao Connection to leave Manila.haha.

Speaking of which, I’m Bora bound in 2 days. Yay! I haven’t spent New Year’s there since ’06-07 because my dad wanted to stay in Manila last year. And this year is extra special since my entire family is going.Plus Gabbie, Tin, and I will be reunited!haha. My cousins and I have been counting down the days to this trip and for sure we won’t be disappointed. I think it’s the perfect way to start the New Year.=)

When I get back, January will be extra busy as well. All birthday weekends...Mich's Birthday (HAPPY BIRTHDAY MICH!) Ginjie's Birthday(HAPPY BIRTHDAY GINJ!), Bingo's birthday salubong/Grand Opening of Manor(HAPPY BIRTHDAY BINGO!),and King's Birthday ((HAPPY BIRTHDAY KING!)! 2009 really expects me to hit the ground running I think. Which isn't a bad thing when you think about it.

It's exhausting to think about.
But, strangely enough, I'm excited.=)

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(no subject) [Dec. 10th, 2008|08:05 pm]

Gossip Girl Episode 13

Watch it.

Blair: Chuck! Stop! Don't go. Or if you have to leave, let me come with you.
Chuck: I appreciate the concern.
Blair: No. You don't. You don't appreciate anything today. But I don't care. Whatever you're going through, I want to be there for you.
Chuck: We talked about this. You are not my girlfriend.
Blair: But I am me. And you are you. We're Chuck and Blair. Blair and Chuck. The worst thing you've ever done—the darkest thought you've ever had—I will stand by you through anything.
Chuck: And why would you do that?
Blair: Because I love you.
Chuck: Well that's too bad.
 

Blair: I told Chuck I love him.
Cyrus: Really? That’s wonderful!
Blair: No it’s not.It’s horrible. I thought that if I could finally say it everything would change. But, he’s just as selfish and soulless as ever. Only a masochist could ever love a such a narcissist. Help me.
Cyrus: You don’t need help.He just needs time.

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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! [Oct. 22nd, 2008|07:26 am]

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY LOVERS!

Much Love <3

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I don't understand... [Oct. 2nd, 2008|01:09 pm]
            I don’t understand why some people need to nit-pick at the littlest things and can’t take the smallest jokes, and yet still claim not to be bitter or say that they are gracious in defeat.              

            While I refuse to say anything more aggressive than this, this must be said.              
            Last Saturday we hosted both the Ateneo and La Salle teams at the UAAP party. While their supporters can’t stop releasing bitter comments, claim to be offended, and trade blows, those boys who battled it out on the hardcourt for your school pride and honor, had their arms around each other’s shoulders, laughed, joked around, and were gentlemen, more than that, they were friends.          

            I think that says it all.

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The Aftermath [Oct. 2nd, 2008|12:57 pm]
Sour grapes, what else
By Ding Marcelo
www.mb.com.ph
Sep 27, 2008


La Salle could have gone out with its head high during the championship series.


But leave it to coach Franz Pumaren to stain a great game and an exceptional Ateneo victory -- and to damage his own credibility -- by claiming that bad officiating did the Green Archers in.

Well, I can’t blame the guy. He’s got to justify the loss, find a scapegoat and what better scapegoat than the referees. It would be shameful if the school shared this misconception and allow this coach to rant about officiating instead of saying that his team will come back next year and play better.

He did not blame himself, did not blame his players who panicked and played selfish and, at times, arrogant, he blamed the referees. In doing so, he missed a golden chance to rise above petty partisanship and behave like a true gentleman.

By doing so, he made his players think that they are better than their opponents although they lost fair and square; and by doing so he tried to convince the La Salle community that they’ve been cheated. What kind of coach is this? Is he talking truthfully or is he simply trying to save his job?

The referees weren’t perfect, that’s for sure. They called a very tight game, worried perhaps that it might deteriorate to the point they would lose control. It just happened that Ateneo adjusted to the referees, La Salle did not.

From a neutral standpoint, there were no glaring errors that would merit the post-game tirade of Pumaren, or any call by the referee that would have altered the outcome of the game. Instead of coming out and praising the Blue Eagles for being the better team, he now claims things would have been different had the referees been less whistle happy.

His claim of referees being biased or incompetent would not have been laughable had La Salle won a game against Ateneo this season. As it is, La Salle lost all four encounters. Also, his claim that La Salle could have won the game would have been believable if La Salle did not have to struggle to make it to the Final 4 and take the second seeding through playoffs.

Instead of being grateful for having gone this far with an overachieving team, Pumaren tried to deflect the loss from his own shortcomings to his own perception that the referees "decided the game."

What an unsportsmanlike gesture.

Imagine Pumaren saying the game was scripted for an Ateneo win. And then said he’s not sour-graping. What do you call that?

Pumaren, should learn how to accept defeat. These things come naturally. And those are values taught in La Salle schools – that you can’t win every day and every game. Apparently he was off playing basketball when these values were the topics in his classroom.

Besides, when he was winning all those games and all those titles, nobody blamed the referees even when many calls were flawed.

What makes La Salle-Ateneo games special is oftentimes not the quality of the games. It is, as has always been the case, the spirit that both schools bring to the hard court. It is the never-say-die attitude that both teams always bring in abundance that makes their games a treasure and always memorable. This is the reason why games between these two schools are always special and the reason why their rivalry is enduring. Everything is always left on the court.

But Pumaren had to spoil it.

Maybe La Salle should assess his coaching status. Remember that he’s the same guy who was in charge when the school was suspended for bringing in two ineligible players three years ago resulting in embarrassment and the return of a championship trophy.

Had his school been less protective, Pumaren, who claimed to be innocent and a non-participant in the scandal, should have been consigned to oblivion a long time ago.

But he’s still there, ruining his own reputation and that of La Salle's.

(Ed’s note: Also see Ed Picson’s column on Page H-3 regarding La Salle’s boycott of the awarding ceremony.)


A bitter aftertaste
By Ed Picson

www.mb.com.ph
Sep 27, 2008

Basketball fans have never had it so good. In the current break between seasons of the Philippine Basketball Association, there is no dearth of thrilling hoops action as the UAAP and the NCAA has been providing more than ample excitement.


As of this writing, Game 2 of the NCAA Finals between the San Beda Red Lions and the Jose Rizal Heavy Bombers was yet to be played but I will surely make it a point to watch, even if my alma mater, Colegio de San Juan de Letran and its knights were unhorsed in the Final Four.

But let’s not get morose here. That’s how the ball games, as they say. You win some, you lose some.

While the Red lions may be favored after their win in Game 1, I have admired the way JRU has played under the able mentorship of Ariel Vanguardia. He deserves a lot of the credit for turning things around for this team. It pains me that it was his cunning and his boys’ determination that caused Letran’s fall, but we all need to accept defeat no matter how bitter it tastes.

Which brings me to the classic UAAP championship battle between Ateneo de Manila and De La Salle University the other night.

It was as expected, another spectacle of a game between the two bitter rivals and naturally, emotions ran high. In the end, Ateneo wrapped it up in two games, sweeping the Archers with their 62-51 win in Game 2.

I thought all along that Coach Norman Black and his boys had the more formidable line-up and were able to hold up under extreme pressure, but La Salle was also talent-laden and was just as motivated. So I held off making predictions when asked by friends on what my take was on that series. It would always be fool-hardy to second guess a game that was to be decided not only by talent, skill and preparation. Too many intangibles also figure in the equation.

It turned out to be as closely-fought and contested as expected and I thought Ateneo won it fair and square. There may have been lapses in the officiating as La Salle Coach Franz Pumaren decried, but those looked more a result of human frailty and did not really dictate the end result.

Of course, Pumaren had all the right to complain and we have also observed the need to professionalize officiating in such high-profile games, even in the collegiate ranks. We have cited before the efforts made by the NCAA in hiring PBL referees thus putting a premium on officiating.

But what provided a bitter after taste to an otherwise exhilarating evening was the failure (refusal?) of La Salle to claim the 2nd place trophy during the closing ceremonies. I can understand the disappointment, dejection and all-around grief that muddles a juvenile’s decision-making in the aftermath of such a loss. But I’m sure there were more mature personalities in their organization that could have provided the voice of reason.

Basketball is a sporting event and the object of an inter-school competition is to promote well-being and give all those involved, especially the studentry, the thrill of competition and absorb the effects thereof. These are valuable lessons that are to fortify them for the greater battles ahead in the game called life. And that includes accepting a loss with dignity and honor.

Sadly, this was not the case during the awarding ceremonies and many were sorely disappointed at the display of unsportsmanlike behavior. At the very least, it sent the wrong message to the legion of young minds that were glued to the event.

I hope Coach Pumaren and La Salle officials have a good explanation for the unfortunate incident. They owe it to the public, especially to the young.

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The More I'm Convinced... [Sep. 20th, 2008|12:34 pm]
The more I look at old photos the more I am convinced that when you’re happy it shows...

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Song of the Moment: Fall for You [Sep. 18th, 2008|08:12 am]
 

The best thing about tonight's that we're not fighting
Could it be that we have been this way before
I know you don't think that I am trying
I know you're wearing thin down to the core

But hold your breathe
Because tonight will be the night that I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I wont live to see another day

I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
Your impossible to find

This is not what I intended
I always swore to you i'd never fall apart
You always thought that I was stronger
I may of failed
But I have loved you from the start

Ohhhh

But hold your breathe
Because tonight will be the night that I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I wont live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
It's impossible

So breathe in so deep
Breathe me in
I'm yours to keep
And hold onto your words
Cuz talk is cheap
And remember me tonight
When your asleep

Because tonight will be the night that I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I wont live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
Tonight will be the night that I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I wont live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
Your impossible to find

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(no subject) [Sep. 15th, 2008|10:32 pm]
[is | happy]

I feel good.

I have a shitload of schoolwork to do and some stuff to do for work.
My back hurts and I have badminton tomorrow.

But, I feel very good. 

I’m glad you’re back in my life and that I’m back in yours.

I’m happy I can tell you how much I’ve missed you and how damn proud I am of you.

I’m just happy.period.

This seems like such an inadequate attempt to express just how I’m feeling. But, no words can even come close.


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VOTE for MACKY ESCALONA! [Sep. 15th, 2008|10:28 am]

Hey Guys!

Please vote for my friend, MACKY ESCALONA, in the Myx VJ Hunt 2008.

Just type myxvj 5 and send to 2366.

Tell your family!Tell your friends!Tell everyone!

Spread the word!

VOTE!VOTE!VOTE!


*Apologies for the ANCIENT picture. It was the only one I could find.hahaha.*


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Happy Birthday Trisha! [Aug. 15th, 2008|09:57 pm]

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TRISHA!

We miss you!We’re still trying to figure out how to get our hands on a 747 and how to land it in your backyard.But,we’ll get there...be ready! =)

-Love, Nica and Gisa

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The Luckiest Girl [Aug. 6th, 2008|09:42 am]

    Last week I randomly decided to give my dad this picture taken of us in Hawaii before our dinner at Nobu.

    I was just going to place it on his desk but I decided to use one of the speech bubble-shaped post-its and wrote “I never got to say thank you for taking us to Hawaii. It’s right up there with Hong Kong as my favorite vacations although I liked Hong Kong just a bit more.Love you dad”

*Because In Hong Kong it was just us...Father-Daughter bonding coz mom and Rich were in Europe.*

Today as I was studying he started rummaging around my room. I asked him what he was looking for and he answered

“Those post-its that talk”
“Post-its that talk??”
“Yeah the one shaped like the one in the comics…”
“Oh the speech bubble ones?”
“Yup!”
“Oh,they’re on mom’s desk.”

    So he shuffles away. My mom called us for dinner and I was in such a bad mood because I wanted to study but my family is rarely home for dinner so I went down. Dad and Rich took their time upstairs which made me even more impatient. We talked for  a bit and I went back up while my parents argued with Rich over his driving privileges. When I opened the lights in my room there was a box on my keyboard. I was annoyed again because I hate it when people dump things on my desk. But when I got closer I was so surprised to see that it was Nokia box and it had the phone I’ve been nagging my dad about. I thought he forgot about it!haha…

...and the SWEETEST and best thing (EVEN BETTER THAN THE PHONE!) was the note attached on  a speech-bubble shaped post-it…


    Even though I’m stressed over midterms and mad about not being able to go to Bora it’s okay. I’m still the luckiest girl in the world. And not because of the material things I’m so blessed to have but because I can truly say I am loved.=)

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Floating,Fighting,and Fire [Aug. 5th, 2008|05:56 am]

I spent the weekend with my Salbabida.

We did the whole “let’s forget the whole world and bond” thing with a bottle of Novellino. It got even better when we got to call the long distance member of our group…Hello Jap!

It’s weird because that weekend we got to step back into a world that we used to be so firmly entrenched in (in fact, some might say we were even drowning in it) . Although, I meant stepping back I meant figuratively and not literally since you can never really go back…not that we wanted to. But, the experience did afford us a view of a world that was once so familiar to us. And it showed us how different things really were.

I won’t go into detail anymore because there are very few people who will understand. But, that’s the key word there very few people. At least that’s what it used to be. Now there seem to be an influx of let’s just say more than the usual few. In fact, most of the familiar faces are gone now. Yup, that’s a little sad. I realized though it’s not even what we knew anymore and the only thing left of that were our memories. But, everyone’s got to move on in the best way possible. And I think that despite all the hiccups and roadblocks, and the few battle scars we’ve obtained along the way, we have made it out just fine.

This weekend was therapeutic for the both of us in SO MANY WAYS. But, instead of the usual tears that used to mar these conversations, this time we both laughed a lot. In the way that can only be done when you can afford to look back and see just how completely ridiculous everything was and helping you imagine how whatever you think is going to kill you now will also look silly later on.

(Novellino also helps with the laughter)

Float (and if need be, setting Fires and ready to Fight!).

I loved this weekend and all the other weekdays, weekends, and random moments that brought us here.

LALALALOVE YOU SALBS!

*This one is for specifically for my Salbs and Trisha.Because no one else understands my gibberish and I miss you two.hahaha.*


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F*ck Late,Party Early! [Jul. 15th, 2008|10:06 pm]

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"Fall in love, stay in love and it will decide everything." [Jul. 14th, 2008|10:07 am]

Every since I saw this written on some torn up Manila paper, tacked up on a random bulletin board, many months/days and some years ago on SEC walk it has stuck with me.

Even better, through the many days that have passed, it has changed meaning to fit every situation I’m going through or the stages I’m in.

And it just gets more and more beautiful.

“Nothing is more practical than finding God, that is, than falling in love in a quite absolute, final way.

What you are in love with, what seizes your imagination, will affect everything. It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning, what you will do with your evenings, how you will spend your weekends, what you read, who you know, what breaks your heart, and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.

Fall in love, stay in love and it will decide everything.”

- Fr. Pedro Arrupe

 

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Sun Number [Jun. 28th, 2008|07:56 am]

In an effort to save a bit because my phone bill is out of control I’m going to start using my Sun number again.

So, if you have a sun number please do text it to me (either my Globe or my Sun) or just message me. Thanks!

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Goodbye Summer '08! [Jun. 15th, 2008|01:11 pm]

An hour and 11 minutes ago, Summer ’08 officially ended for me.

This summer has taught me so much. I feel like I have gained perspective, found some direction, and have had some changes in my point of view. I’m glad to say all these changes feel great although it wasn’t easy to accept them. 

A summer filled with laughter, tears, good times, and hard work. It’s a summer of friends, family, friends who are family, strangers who have become friends, and so much more.

The pictures don’t even tell half the stories and the unforgettable moments that made it so wonderful.

Thank you to those people (you know who you are!”) who made it so and for all those moments that you brought.

If there was ever a sweet summer this was it. 

Goodbye Summer ’08!

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(no subject) [Jun. 4th, 2008|11:45 pm]
Tonight I'm listening to the saddest love songs, watching the most heartbreaking love scenes, and wondering what it would be like to really fall in love.

Remnants of an inuman/meeting with 4 other single people.

But, everything, I suppose, pales in comparison.
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